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General Discussion / I cheated and asked for a divorce.
« on: November 29, 2022, 01:08:14 AM »
I was unfaithful and he found out about it in February. then he said he wanted to figure it out.

Since then, things have only gotten worse, and we were both just unhappy. Trust is not returned. The spark is gone and we can't get it back.. love is gone it won't come back.. we tried therapy and it didn't help.. so last week i asked for texas online divorce and my stbx is so hurt and pissed off i get but I really feel it's the best for everyone.

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General Discussion / My husband and I don't have much in common...
« on: November 28, 2022, 09:49:38 PM »
We've been together for 9 years (no kids), got married last year and I'm worried I made the wrong choice by getting married.

We have both worked very hard to build our separate business since the beginning of our relationship, and now that we can sit back and enjoy the fruits of our labor, I realize that we are far apart.

I completely ignored how important it is to be free and stupid for me. He is much more strict and serious.

Has anyone been on a boat like this before? I am currently trying to calculate the average cost of divorce in california and would like to file in.

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General Discussion / I don't know if we're getting divorced
« on: November 26, 2022, 11:04:12 PM »
My husband said he wants a divorce last week and gonna file https://onlinedivorceincalifornia.com/. I tried to save our relationship and start couples therapy in two weeks, but he said he didn't want to go anymore. So, earlier this week, he said he wanted to file paperwork, not drag it out. But yesterday he said he needs to figure out his mental health and wants to have a clear mind before filing anything.

What's the matter?

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General Discussion / After your divorce
« on: November 24, 2022, 08:45:21 PM »
After your florida online divorce did anyone ever realize that your partner never actually loved you?

I just wonder if when I start dating again I’ll find out what it feels like to be actually unconditionally loved and realize I settled for someone who didn’t even like me

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General Discussion / Accept failure?
« on: November 17, 2022, 11:21:34 PM »
I've been divorced for about 2 years now. We https://onlinedivorceinpa.com/

I'm in my 30s, we got married young, at 20. There were children. It was pretty rough. Our relationship was very toxic from the start and the divorce was pretty nasty.

After all these years, I still want to go back to him.

Can anyone relate? Does anyone have any advice? I'm fighting here.

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General Discussion / Date after divorce
« on: October 30, 2022, 06:32:44 PM »
To be clear, I'm not ready to date; I'm almost divorced I filed https://printabledivorce.com/hawaii/. I can't imagine dating anyone or being there for a long time.

But I'm not going to become a hermit.

I thought this whole dating thing was a closed chapter in my life. Gosh, this is so depressing. Someone wrote that dating after thirty sucks. Our dating pool is full of people no one wanted to marry or divorcees like us who have a lot of baggage. This is so sad. Why is this happening?!

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General Discussion / Hurd day
« on: October 30, 2022, 06:29:57 PM »
Today is the day of my divorce https://cheap-divorce-online.com/west-virginia/. We have been separated for 9 months. This shouldn't have happened. Looking back, I wish I never married him. Never even met him. His lies and deceit have broken me in a way that I cannot express. I loved him with all my heart. But today it's done. I'm writing this from my boyfriend's bed. There is no way back. Not fixing what he broke. I'm working through my problems, but I have to let him go.

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General Discussion / marriage divorce question
« on: October 30, 2022, 06:26:12 PM »
I wanted to get a divorce https://onlinedivorcer.co.uk/online-divorce-scotland without a good reason (discovered marriage is not for me), however I know that this will make my husband very upset, he loves me, so I decided to stay, in Married for 2 years, the child is on the way, did I do the right thing?

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General Discussion / dating after divorce
« on: October 29, 2022, 07:30:13 PM »
Mom is here, dating after a divorce https://onlinedivorcecalifornia.com/filing-for-divorce-in-marin-county/.

I meet someone quite regularly, but I'm not ready to introduce him to the children. I also don't like to lie about who I spend time with when I leave the house.

So what should I tell the kids (13F, 9M)? I'm dating someone but not ready to introduce them to you? Am I just with a "friend?"

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General Discussion / Re: very happy I at last registered
« on: October 29, 2022, 07:27:49 PM »
Just starting the divorce process https://gaonlinedivorce.com/filing-for-divorce-in-columbia-county/, my future ex and I both earn very similar money, we have two children, we will have custody of 50/50, we will split everything 50/50. So far, we are on good terms and seem to agree on most issues going forward.

What did you overlook when entering into the divorce/separation agreement?

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General Discussion / I'm thinking about divorce
« on: October 29, 2022, 07:24:23 PM »
I met my husband 6 years ago, we have 1 son, he is 4 years old.

Sometimes I don't know if I love my husband and I get lost.

We fell in love, got married, and I had a son. This is where our problems began.

His family didn't respect me and hurt my feelings a lot, especially during my pregnancy, and he never stopped them.

Where he did something that hurt me a lot and I begged him to stop and I cried and he promised and then he did it again.

Why can't I just forgive. I cried when I remembered that I let him treat me like that. I'm goining file for divorce https://onlinedivorcewa.com/free-washington-state-divorce-papers-pdf/

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General Discussion / I hate my ex husband
« on: October 29, 2022, 06:53:29 PM »
So so many fucking lies. About everything, fucking, about social status, about economic status, about your own thinking.

He was so offensive. Verbally, emotionally. I remember so many sentences that were full of dirt.

I feel like I'll never recover from the pain. I feel like I will never let go of this anger. And if I don't, I will forever be trapped in this shitty situation that I should never have been a part of to begin with.

I hate him. I want divorce https://paonlinedivorce.com/centre-county

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General Discussion / Going through it
« on: April 26, 2022, 07:53:30 PM »
Well I left. I stayed at my parents for a week and then moved into a place that my parents own that was empty. Since I had laid my boundaries down a few months ago, I was preparing to leave. I knew he wouldn't be able to live up to normal expectations (even though I want him to for the sake of our 2 boys). And now I just want to get divorce https://onlinedivorcer.com/online-divorce-texas

My ex has gone through many emotions so far.. wanting to know where I am, telling me he was keeping the kids one night (I'm still breastfeeding my 1.5 yr old at night and he's never been apart from me at night) and that if I picked up my youngest he would call the cops to letting me come get him, telling me he realized how much I was really doing, blah blah.

The main point of this post is that he is all "woe is me". He lost his job about 2 months ago and he's having trouble finding another one. Even though he has done all this shit to me over the years, I'm finding myself still comforting him! Still trying to make sure he's okay. How can I train myself to stop? I justify it to myself by saying I need to be on good terms for the kids because until paperwork is filed, he has every right to take them as much as I do. And if I have to "play nice" to keep them, then I will.

He's so sad, blah blah. Why did it take me leaving for you to change... is the change going to be real?

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